Comments for Wine And Roses From Outer Space

Comment on Baby Love by fatimasaysell

fatimasaysell — Thu, 23 May 2013 12:45:57 +0000

It can’t be easy for any of you, but I am sure that love will triumph over adversity and that R’s wonderful foster parents will fight until the end and will get him back. All my love and strength to all of you. <3

Comment on Baby Love by Missus Tribble

Missus Tribble — Thu, 23 May 2013 12:28:23 +0000

He’s in a psychiatric unit not far from his foster family. After the 28 days of sectioning Social Services implied that they would be seeking a new placement for him, but his foster family (bless them) are refusing to even consider it. They view R as a part of their family now and to take him from their care would devastate both the family and R himself.

I’ve had my dose of anti-depressants increased, as I have been both inconsolable and hysterical by turns – and even though I can’t be there I still need to be able to help to make decisions concerning his treatment and his care. I have to keep a level head as much as I can.

Thank you for thinking of us xx

Comment on Baby Love by Missus Tribble

Missus Tribble — Thu, 23 May 2013 12:20:35 +0000

I’ve been in a real state since Sunday afternoon, when I found out. Called my Mum in hysterics the other night nd have since had my dose of anti-depressants increased – hopefully just a temporary measure.

I’m so grateful that R’s foster father refuses to even consider the idea of not having him home after this; there was talk of finding a new placement and he wasn’t having any of it.

Thank you for the hugs. D is being wonderful but hugs are always welcome xx

Comment on Baby Love by thehappyhugger

thehappyhugger — Thu, 23 May 2013 12:05:06 +0000

Mrs T, this is ssurely so very, very painful for you…sending warm comforting hugs.

Comment on Baby Love by Missus Tribble

Missus Tribble — Thu, 23 May 2013 12:04:14 +0000

Thank you for your kind words.

When I spoke to R’s foster father he said that somebody had mentioned finding a new placement; he was horrified and was adamant that R was going home to his family. They love him so much – his foster Dad was almost in tears when he told me that, without R, the house just doesn’t feel like home.

I’ve had my dose of anti-depressants increased. The other night I called my Mum in tears and I NEVER do that. I keep breaking down, and even if I can’t be there for R physically I need the emotional spoons to help with decisions concerning his treatment and care.

D has been wonderful, of course, but I can’t expect him to constantly be holding me up.

Comment on Baby Love by fatimasaysell

fatimasaysell — Wed, 22 May 2013 13:59:56 +0000

I am so sorry about this sad episode in your life! There is really nothing one can say to make better, only that I am sure this is only just temporary and that your son will go back to his foster parents soon. We all trip and fall in life from time to time and autistic people have it even more difficult trying to make sense of it all without the coping mechanism that the rest of us take for granted.

Best of luck and Lots of love

Fatima

Comment on Autistic Son Psyched In A Bad Way by faithhopechocolate

faithhopechocolate — Wed, 22 May 2013 12:30:39 +0000

At least you know it was tried. And as I said, R is on the prayer list for as long as he needs to be on the prayer list. Xxx

Comment on Autistic Son Psyched In A Bad Way by develish1

develish1 — Tue, 21 May 2013 23:41:10 +0000

I’ll definitely be thinking of you all love, and hoping some good comes out of this in the way of new ideas for his future care. *hugs*

Comment on Baby Love by renxkyoko

renxkyoko — Tue, 21 May 2013 19:42:05 +0000

This is so heartbreaking, Missus Tribble. I hope your son is okay too wherever he is now.

Comment on Guest Post – Doctor Who Review: Nightmare in Silver by InkAshlings

InkAshlings — Tue, 21 May 2013 13:06:58 +0000

Reblogged this on InkAshlings.